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CLARITY
The Psychology of Happiness
Concepts for a Happier more Harmonious life
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April 21th, 2003 Circulation 1800 Issue # 37
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I AM LOVE

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Dear Friends,

May this find you well.

For this issue we have chosen a chapter from Robert's book Miracles of Love and Wisdom.

The phrase and concept has been taken from the
Course in Miracles.

We hope that these ideas will help us to perceive the world with less fear and become sources of love and forgiveness.

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I AM LOVE
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Fear is our greatest obstacle in every aspect of our lives.

Love is our greatest asset in overcoming this obstacle.

Affirming and experiencing that "I AM LOVE" is the key to getting free from the cycle of fear and aggression.

Few of us realize how much we fear.

We live fairly protected lives and have managed to shelter ourselves having little or no contact with that which we fear.

We surround ourselves with the familiar and avoid the unfamiliar, so as not to be confronted by that which we fear - which, to a great degree, is the unknown itself.

Only completely self-realized beings are totally free from fear. As long as there is the slightest identification with the body and personality, which are vulnerable and mortal, there will be fear towards whatever might endanger their safety.

Our fears depend on our past experiences with various objects, beings and situations.

We project those fears into the future.

When we do so, we cannot feel unity or love.

We get lost in various emotional defense mechanisms such as withdrawing or attacking.

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THE LAW OF THE JUNGLE

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This law-of-the-jungle way of thinking has simply been transferred to a new type of jungle - the business jungle, the sexual jungle, the social jungle, the sports jungle, the money jungle, the political jungle and others, in which we assume that the law of the jungle still exists.

We have been programmed to believe that others are ready and willing to take advantage of us and abuse us, and thus we are either living in fear, or calculating, in our minds, how to protect our interests or get the upper hand on the other, before he gets a chance to harm us.

These beliefs create fear. These thoughts also have to do with what might happen to us or our family. When our child or spouse is late coming home, we start out with a series of thoughts, imagining the worst type of harm that may have come to them, in order for them not to have arrived at the expected time.

In this way, we create a mental reality of danger and injustice, in which it is difficult for one to survive. We project and collectively create a reality in which only the fittest survives and, in our society that unfortunately often means the slyest, the one with the least scruples.

This type of reality is not the creation of the few who succeed in it, it is our
collective creation, which we project onto our children, programming them not to trust strangers. We encourage them to try to be better than the others and compete with them rather than co-operate with them.

We teach them that ?some lies? are necessary in order to protect their interests in society, in which "no one else cares about them".

We create exactly the type of society in which we will never be able to realize our true selves or manifest our inner beauty and power.

We have learned worrying as a way of thinking.

We worry about the future, about the weather, about the motives of others, about our financial situation, about our children, our parents, friends; about what might go wrong; about how we are going to protect ourselves in this ?difficult? world, and how we are going to cope with the various problems in life, and how we are going to answer those who criticize us.

We pollute the mental environment with all these negative thoughts, which, in general, degrade the quality of our subjective reality.

These thoughts keep our energy and consciousness continually locked into the three lower centers of our consciousness concerning security, pleasure and power - affirmation.

They keep us locked in feelings of separateness.

They perpetuate our feelings of vulnerability, hurt, worry, anxiety, depression, anger, bitterness and, in some cases, revenge. We create needless suffering for ourselves and others.

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LOVE IS THE KEY

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We can get free from this world of fear by giving up these negative thoughts. This means giving up all thoughts of how we are going to protect or avenge ourselves. We can free ourselves from this world of imagined, and consequently, self- created danger.

We can stop fearing what may happen to us and realize that
we are divine beings, and that all the beings that we see are manifestations of the one God.

We can stop fearing them and realize that they too live in fear and that if they feel our love, their negative tendencies will be disarmed. On the other hand, if they sense our fear or our aggressive tendencies, they will act accordingly.

We affect others with our attack thoughts and our fears .

Herein lies the great power of
forgiveness.

It is essential to forgive everyone (including ourselves) for anything they may have done. Our refusal to forget the past and forgive is actually doing much more harm to us than to the other.
Our consciousness is burdened with those negative feelings; we suffer inwardly.

Let us bring to mind each and every person towards whom we have negative feelings.

Let us realize that life is giving us a lesson. Let us forgive and get free.

Love is the "soul-ution". It is our way out of this unpleasant situation.

Let us remember from now on that we are
not the victims of the world that we see; that we are immortal, invulnerable beings.

Let us remember that we are the pure eternal consciousness, which can never be harmed and can never die. Let us remember that we are good and deserving.

Nothing can ever happen to us without it being for the benefit of our evolution. Some unpleasant events may occur, but they will be unpleasant only because we interpret them in that way through lack of faith and understanding.

Let us realize that the
one who we really are cannot be harmed.

We are divine consciousness. All this harm, danger, hurt and protecting goes on at the level of the body and the personality.

Christ taught us that if we live according to the laws of our Father, then all our needs will be looked after, just as He cares for the birds and the lilies of the field. Few believe this enough to act accordingly.

What is the law of our Father? To love Him with all our heart, soul, mind and strength, and to love others as we love ourselves. This means to live a life of helping and serving others in whatever way we are able. If we do this, our needs will be cared for, and we will have no fears.

St. John writes in his first epistle (4.8), "
perfect love drives out all fear".

One who has the innocent love of a little child walks fearlessly in the world, feeling at ease with everyone, feeling unity with all.

Imagine yourself walking down the street feeling that you love everyone who passes by.

Could you fear someone you truly loved?

St.John also said "God is love".

When we love we are becoming one with God, one with the creative power of the universe.

Is there any greater form of protection?

Ken Keys, author of "THE HANDBOOK TO HIGHER CONSCIOUSNESS", says that the law to higher consciousness is
"to love everyone unconditionally - including yourself".

We have already spoken much about loving ourselves and others unconditionally, but perhaps this chapter can be a stimulus to look, even more deeply, into what prevents us from being able to love ourselves and others unconditionally.

Look especially at those factors, which involve fear or negative programming about the others? intentions.

Look too for feelings of guilt or unworthiness, which may have been programmed into you, causing you subconsciously to expect and fear punishment, suffering, harm or failure.

Such guilt-creating programming will definitely cause us to get lost in various types of negative thoughts concerning ourselves and others.

When we recognize such programmings, we can free ourselves from them by realizing that we are good and worthy, that we deserve respect, health, happiness and success in life.

We can also realize the same and wish the same for others.

We can live in love - in fearlessness.

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TECHNIQUE

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The following technique, in conjunction with your daily spiritual practices, will aid you in bringing this type of love and fearlessness into your daily life.

Every half-hour stop to look around you and mentally repeat this phrase, "I AM LOVE".

Repeat this a few times and continue what you are doing with a feeling of love.

In addition to doing this, stop a few times a day for about five minutes and close your eyes and begin to think about the various unresolved aspects of your life. Focus on whatever might be causing you tension, worry, bitterness, hurt, anger, fear etc.

After each such thought, repeat the phrase, "THE MIND IS CONCERNED ABOUT_____ ", or if some fear is involved, "THE MIND IS AFRAID THAT___ WILL HAPPEN / NOT HAPPEN. "

Then after having expressed objectively what the mind is preoccupied with, repeat silently the phrase, I AM LOVE".

Keep affirming, "I AM LOVE".

This will lead you to the most effective and harmonious reaction and solution to every situation.

Do this for at least one week before going on to the next chapter.

You can access more chapters of this book at:
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Keep In mind that you can also employ EFT for getting free from fears.
See
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The allegory of the Frog
A Lesson of Life

This was sent to us by a friend

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Once upon a time there was a race of frogs
The goal was to reach the top of a high tower.

Many people gathered to see and support them.

The race began

In reality, the people didn?t believe that it was possible that the frogs would reach the top of the tower, and all the phrases that one could hear were of this kind:
"What pain!!! É They?ll never make it!"

The frogs began to doubt themselves.

The people continued:
"... What pain!!! They?ll never make it! ..."

And the frogs, one by one, admitted defeat,
except for one frog that continued to climb.

At the end he, alone, and with an enormous effort, reached the top of the tower.

One of the quitters approached him to ask him how he had done it, to finish the race.

And discovered that he...

Éwas deaf!

...Never listen to people who have the bad habit of being negative...
because they steal the best aspirations of your heart!


Always remind yourself of the power of the words that we hear or read - always think positive
POSITIVE!

Conclusion:
Always be deaf to someone who tells you that you can?t and won?t achieve your goals or make come true your dreams.


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Dear God and all Angelic Beings,

We thank you for purifying us, guiding us, supporting us and using us for highest possible purpose.

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